Premarital Counseling: Create Long-Term Alignment for Life Together
Build a Marriage That’s Stronger
Than the Statistics
In the real world, love doesn’t always conquer all. The fact that at least 50% of American marriages end in divorce proves that “winging it” isn’t a strategy. Most couples spend months planning a five-hour wedding, but very little time planning a fifty-year marriage. At Therapy By You, we’re here to change that. In our structured eight-week premarital counseling program, we help you prevent your relationship from becoming another statistic. Our therapist guides you and your partner through high-stakes areas that determine marital success:
Did you know?
- Communication: Successful couples don’t talk at each other; they listen to be understood. Prepare for a total communication upgrade.
- Conflict: Stop having the same argument over and over. Learn to resolve issues effectively so you can move forward instead of just “moving on.”
- Money: It’s one of the top reasons couples clash, but it doesn’t have to be a wedge. We’ll help you get aligned on finances before you say, “I do.”Â
We help you plan for a lasting future together at our office in Bingham Farms, Michigan. We can also help you via secure, HIPAA-compliant virtual sessions for couples throughout the state.
Don't Just Plan a Wedding, Build a Marriage That Lasts
Falling in love is the easy part. Building and maintaining a marriage that thrives requires both spouses to follow the same strategy.
Couples don’t seek our premarital counseling because something is “broken.” They come to us to help them build a foundation for lasting commitment and happiness.
Our program helps you develop a shared vision by giving you the tools to:
Navigate Conflict: Turn disagreements into opportunities for deeper connection.
Design Your Future: Build a shared roadmap for finances, family, and career goals.
Deepen Your Bond: Master your partner’s "love map" to stay connected for a lifetime.
Are you two ready to move past the "wedding haze" to build a foundation of total alignment?
8 Weeks to a Lifetime of Connection & Understanding
Most couples plan for the wedding day; we help you plan for the decades that follow. Our structured, eight-week program explores the heart of your partnership.
By helping you come together on these important issues, you’ll turn your “I do” into a lifetime of “we can.”
Week 1: Intake & Love Story
Week 2: Individual Sessions
Week 3: Gottman Assessment Review & Relationship Roadmap
Week 4: Conflict & The Science of Connection
Week 5: State of the Union & Relationship Maintenance
Week 6: Future Planning - Money, Careers & Family
Week 7: Building Shared Meaning and Cultural Integration
Week 8: Closing Session & Long-Term Relationship Growth
Limited Time Bundle Offer
Get all 8 weeks of premarital counseling at a special rate of $1,200 (regularly $1,600). This comprehensive package includes:
- 8 Structured Sessions
- Gottman Relationship Assessment
- Personalized Relationship Roadmap
- Take-home Exercises and Resources
If any of this sounds familiar, therapy can provide the tools and support you need to feel more confident and at peace.
Common Questions about Premarital Counseling
Sessions are one hour long.
Hesitation is normal. We encourage a gree consultation call to explore any concerns.
Yes virtual sessions are available.
Yes, but religious beliefs can be integrated if desired.
Premarital counseling is designed for engaged couples, but long-term partners can also benefit.
The program allows for short pauses if needed but is best completed consistently.
